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Blind Date Tips

Blind Date Preparation

The Valentine Shop Journal·3 min read

Going on a blind date? A little preparation goes a long way toward making it a success instead of a horror story.

Give yourself plenty of time to get ready and get there — arriving flustered sets the wrong tone before you've even said hello. Choose a neutral, public place; it's safer, and easier to step away from gracefully if things aren't clicking.

Words are only 7% of the message.

Tone and body language carry the rest. Smile, be present, and be honest at the end — whether that means "I'd love to see you again" or a kind, clear "I don't think we're a match."

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