How to Get the Guy
1. Show the Guy That
You Are Vulnerable
Men need to feel needed, yes it may be from the
dinosaurs but it does still apply. I do not mean
that you have to be weak, give in to whatever
he wants, and put up with any way he treats you
I am not suggesting that. Many men like strong
women, but strong women who put out that they
do not need a guy often end up alone. It is fine
to be strong but try and temper it with "ok here
is a situation where I can be vulnerable". Men
have a strong protective instinct, though they
may rarely show it.
2. Let The Guy Think That He Is Doing The Hunting
Men love the thrill of the chase, it is in their
genetic makeup, it is definately a male thing.
Play a little secretive and hard to get, and men
will flock like bees to honey. That means having
a sense of your own worth, men hate women who
are clingy. They are not props, they hate boosting
a womens ego all the time. In fact men want a
real balanced person. Make him feel he wants to
make the first move and do the chasing. Women
learn to manipulate men at a very early age. By
the age of five most girls have learnt how to
wrap their father around there little finger.
3. "Let The Guy Think That He Is Mr Right Rather
Than Mr Right Now!"
Stroke their egos, they are not a ticket to go
out and pay all the time, let them know that you
really value them as a person.
4. Laugh At His Jokes
This is imperative that a man feels he is funny
and witty and is an extension of three, they are
valued for their sense of humour. Where would
we be in life without
laughter.
5. Never Call Him After The First During The
Next Week
If a guy is interested in seeing you again, trust
me he will call you in the first week. He will
do this even if he says he has to go out of town.
If you call him, you come
across as over-anxious. You appear desperate,
and are more likely to scare the guy off. It is
OK to ask him out the first time but not the second.
6. If You Are Dating Online Get A Professional
Photo Taken At A Studio
When dating online you have to market yourself
to be successful. A professional photographer
will know how to get the best shots out of you
and make you look your very best.
7.Don't Go Out With Your Girlfriends In Large
Groups
Some men feel that approaching a women in a large
group is intimidating. Go out in smaller groups,
and make it easier for an interested guy to approach
you.
8. Approach Him
Be confidant enough to approach him and ask him
if he wants to go for a coffee. If you're not
sure whether he is gay or not, then approach him
anyway.
If he gives you the brush-over then you have lost
nothing, but you can pat yourself on the back
for taking the initiative, most men will be flattered
by this.
9. You Like Him But He Is Ignoring You
Guys are insecure, and they want to feel liked,
and popular. Start ignoring him for a while, not
rudely, you don't have to make an issue out of
it. Just look right through him, and he will start
to be piqued. There is no guarantee here he may
not take it any further, it may just boost his
confidance, but you have not lost anything
10. Don't Appear To Be Desperate
Desperation is a real turn off for men. It is
an indicator that a woman is going to start to
get clingy, and that is not good. Appear yourself
and show a friendly interest.
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